Learn how to practice gentle vaginal stretching and perineal massage. Keep your perineum soft and relax for a healthy vaginal birth.
"There is nothing in a caterpillar that tells you it's going to be a butterfly." -Margaret Fuller
The perineal massage was a method recommended by midwives in the 70's and the 80's to prevent tears during vaginal delivery.
Many doctors believe that it may reduce the rate of episiotomy.
One of the most recent research seems to say that it slightly reduces the number of tears in women delivering their first baby. Their conclusion is that perineal massage during pregnancy is a prevention of perineal trauma (American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, March 2000).
The vaginal stretching is a detour in an area of our body that usually receives little attention except for hygiene and sex!
Explore Your Vagina!
In my prenatal yoga class, I always introduce the subject for a healthy vagina...and I have a lot of reactions! Some women find that this massage is unpleasant and refuse to practice it. Some believe it's a good preparation for vaginal delivery, especially when you have learned to relax your perineum muscles.
I like to remind pregnant women about the Sphincter Law. Ina May Gaskin, a great midwife, describes the Sphincter Law in the following way:
It's good to explore your perineum and to be aware of its muscles, skin and tissues. This is where you will feel pressure and stretching during childbirth. To avoid anxiety or any shock related to natural birth, I think it is a good idea to try it once, at least! You will feel more in control and confident during the pushing stage.
If you want to explore the preparation of your perineum, I invite you to visit my pelvic floor exercise page. I think it is wise to learn how to locate your pelvic muscles in order to be able to relax them during labor and delivery...or to use them during the stage of pushing!
Discovering the sensation of vaginal stretching, to tame that particular sensation before giving birth can help you to stay calm during delivery.
Keep in mind that your perineum is made to open and it's the natural passage for your baby!
More than ever, you will need to relax during the passage of your child in your perineum and in your vagina.
You will need to breathe deeply, even though you will feel this burning sensation.
And remember that every little relaxation brings you closer to the opening that's right for your baby, that is right for your body!